What is Ugeddit?
Have you ever had a moment where you were heard, and completely understood?
With your best friend, moments like these represent why you are friends
With someone new, these moments make it seem like you’ve known each other for years
When this happens, what words come to your mind?
“You get it” (Ugeddit)
What does Ugeddit do?
We focus on helping people do 3 things:
- Make difficult conversations easier
- Build & grow happy relationships
- Improve critical thinking skills
Make difficult conversations easier
People often have concerns about
- Others doing things they don’t like, or not doing things they would like
- Asking for what they want without seeming selfish or demanding
- Talking about emotional subjects comfortably and effectively
To help with all of these and more, we’ve designed a language to create comfort and understanding, and build connection and growth in every conversation and relationship.
It’s called CNC (Core Needs Communication).
Build and grow happy relationships
Whether it’s the relationships between different particles in the universe, between different people in a relationship, workplace, or community, or even your relationship with yourself, how things and people interact with each other is what creates, changes, and grows everything.
If you’re not happy with everything about your family, partner(s), business, community, or life in general, then this means certain things about your relationships with them, or with yourself and how you think about them, can be changed to create more comfort, happiness, and excitement for both yourself and them.
Improve critical thinking skills
Recognizing & understanding the difference between what is measured or observed vs what is assumed, interpreted, or imagined is the key to learning more effectively to make life simpler and get more of what you want.
Assumptions always form; the mind does it automatically, because assumptions are necessary in order to understand anything. But any one assumption is never universal, and using the same assumption across multiple situations can create tunnel vision and perceptual blindness, preventing people from seeing additional choices they have, or even recognizing the existence of things or behaviours that are harming or helping them.
One of the most common limiting assumptions is this: “If I cannot perceive, recall, or imagine something, it never happened or must not exist”. But in reality, there are always more things we have not yet perceived, things we aren’t recalling at the moment, and things we haven’t learned how to imagine.
Questioning assumptions like these helps people start seeing more of the choices they have and paths they can explore to understand more about themselves, the world, and ways to define & achieve their goals faster.
How are we doing these?
Core Needs Communication
A language designed to create comfort & understanding, and build connection & growth in every conversation and relationship
Online Community
Learning resources, events, Q&A, practice, peer support